Me too.
But not after today.
shop at CVS?
12 Thursday Feb 2009
12 Thursday Feb 2009
Me too.
But not after today.
11 Wednesday Feb 2009
Posted in gah, gender, glbt, open letters
06 Friday Feb 2009
Watch this:
“Fidelity”: Don’t Divorce… from Courage Campaign on Vimeo.
And then go here, please, to sign and send this letter to the California State Supreme Court, asking them to invalidate Prop 8 and uphold the 18,000 gay marriages that were performed in California in 2008.
15 Monday Dec 2008
Posted in gah
is it friday yet?
harrumph.
ETA:
People on the internet are real jackasses.
04 Thursday Dec 2008
I’ve been reading a lot of blogs lately that have a socially-conscious focus: feminism, racism, glbt stuff, motherhood. Generally I find it infinitely more satisfying to read about the social justice and civil rights movements than I do to read about academics and art, despite my association with the art world. And even if the blogs themselves don’t focus on the specific social issues, the authors tend to be fairly sensitive to the issues in their everyday lives.
In the past year or so of reading these blogs, I’ve found a fair amount of trolling and baiting. It’s to be expected: the ability to retain anonymity on the internet has, of course, spawned a sort of bravado in blog comment sections, especially, where people de-lurk to post their differing views in various tones of frustration. Sometimes the comments get nasty, becoming overtly racist, sexist, homophobic or graphic.
But just this week, I learned of two separate instances on two separate blogs where the comments crossed the line from anonymous, impersonal attacks on the content to personal attacks on the authors.
The first incidence I came across was over at Bent Corner, when Rick posted this entry:
“In retrospect, I should have realized Long Duck Dong was more than just some random weirdo. On learning who she really is, I went back and re-read all of her comments. In one of them, she wrote:
you have no clue what i know and how much, both on these random topics and the person posting them.
She’s implying that she knows things about me.”
I’m happy to say that there were no actual threats aimed at Rick – rather, the comments are sort of incoherent ramblings with the apparent intent of making Rick feel shamed and paranoid. Her comments have the opposite effect, though, as Rick states:
“I stand by everything I’ve ever written here. I have nothing to be ashamed of. I’m not the one hiding behind a goofy name.”
Then today, I read an entry over at Racialicious which just chilled me to the bone:
“[T]his comment, which prompted an immediate call to the police and has resulted in an investigation by both law enforcement and other professionals investigating on-line on my behalf, left me speechless:Love your blog, Paula.
We share the same name.
Heck, we even live in the same state. xxx (state named). It’s only a matter of time until I find out your address. And your son’s school. And ___’s (husband’s first name used) work.
Then we’ll be best friends. I’ll stay close to you and your family.
And teach you a lesson.
Love ya,
Paula“
I mean, sweet Jesus. That’s a tangible threat right there. And the blog entry in question that garnered the threat? Right here. An entry on the differences between overt and subtle racism, and how the author feels about each of them.
The author of this second entry has essentially pulled all entries off her blog, except for two recent ones dealing directly with the comment in question. And fortunately she took it seriously enough to get the authorities involved.
These two incidents make me angry. Of course, being the tree-hugging hippie that I am, I believe in free speech, and I’m anti-censorship. However, I think there’s a solidly defined line between free speech and actively threatening someone. And I don’t understand why words on a computer screen can anger someone so much that it would drive them to make threats against a person’s life, family, or livelihood.
I read a really interesting and frustrating article a few months ago in Bitch Magazine about Kathy Sierra, a programming instructor and game developer who had a public blog that was pretty popular. Someone, though, began making threats against Sierra, and they escalated into death threats – to the point where Sierra pulled the plug on her blog and cancelled all public appearances. Sierra’s appearance in Bitch was part of a larger article about the incidence of harassment in the blogosphere, and Sierra’s case was certainly not isolated. The group Anonymous, mostly known for attacking the Church of Scientology, has also targeted feminist websites, forums and bloggers with the intent to intimidate and generally cause chaos.
Atlasien posted a comment to Racialicious that gives some good insight into the psychology of trolling on the internet. Basically there seems to be some general agreement that trolls are looking to intimidate bloggers into silence (which was also mentioned in the Bitch article), which is a sad, sad thing. Especially since those trolls are often quick to cry “First Amendment!” when censored or told to piss off.
It’s sad and frustrating and frightening that this kind of stuff happens, that people behave in such a vile and cowardly way. And though I don’t often blog (with any eloquence) about super-controversial subjects, these occurrences only serve to remind me that it’s important to keep talking about the things I think are important.
“I didn’t know that terror looked like silence…I didn’t know you could be so frightened you couldn’t speak, because all of my life I’ve had my voice.”
Staceyann Chin
21 Friday Nov 2008
Posted in gah, the interwebs, violence
I am just at a loss for words right now. This is pretty disturbing.
More later, probably.
28 Tuesday Oct 2008
Oh, guys.
This is not how we win.
Chad Michael Morrisette and his partner (who apparently only gets a first name, Mito) have created a Halloween display featuring Sarah Palin in a noose:
Sigh.
It wasn’t funny when some conservative college kids did it to Obama. It’s not funny when you do it to Palin.
The couple in question seem to understand that creating an Obama figure in a similar pose would be offensive and potentially dangerous, because of “our country’s history.” But I would really think that as a members of a group that has been targeted by violence on many, many occasions throughout history, these two guys would have put a little more thought into it. Mocking the $150k wardrobe scandal, pointing out Palin’s neo-McCarthyist-witchhunt perspectives, or her neanderthal views on women’s rights: all funny. All clever.
Depicting Palin as the victim of a vile, violent crime? Not funny. It’s relying on primal emotions to evoke a reaction from an audience. And again, I would think these guys would have put a little thought into the situation: the primal emotion that causes violence is, generally, fear. Transpanic, homophobia, racism, sexism: all fancy words for “fear.” So basically, they’re advertising their own insecurity, and attempting to dress it up in humor.
Except I don’t understand why violence is suddenly a huge joke.
24 Friday Oct 2008
Now this shit pisses me off:
Ashley Todd, who reported she was attacked by an Obama supported in “a bad part of Pittsburgh” while taking money out of an ATM, has admitted to making it up.
This situation presents several problems:
1. She’s attempted to tamper with an election. As a McCain supporter, she created a negative portrayal of Obama supporters – for what purpose? Certainly not by coincidence – not at this point in time. In Pennsylvania, a state that McCain is desperately trying to hang on to, this young, innocent looking Southern girl levied some serious accusations of assault and robbery against a supporter of her candidate’s opponent. The only reasonable motive is to create a state of fear about what will happen if Obama’s supporters have something to celebrate come November 4th.
2. She’s reaffirming the national fear of The Black Man. Her vague description plays on stereotypes that we are all too familiar with – reminiscent of the Susan Smiths of the world. This is one of the oldest stereotypes available, people: The Black Man as a sexual and violent predator of white women. This is Birth of a Nation shit.
3. She’s undermining the ground we’ve gained in having violence against women taken seriously. Everytime a woman makes up a story about being assaulted, harrassed, abused or taken advantage of, women as a group lose credibility. In a world where we have women like Eve Ensler and men like Joe Biden fighting so hard for the health and safety of women, and men like John McCain voting down bills that would provide us even a little bit of security, it drives me incredibly bonkers to know that some 20-year-old twit who doesn’t think about the world beyond her own viewpoint is willing to risk everything we’ve ever fought for.
Ashley Todd is now being charged with making a false report to the police. In a perfect world, she’d also be charged with being a racist set on defeating the purpose of democracy, and endangering the lives of women.
20 Monday Oct 2008
It doesn’t surprise me anymore when I find out something “new” about Sarah Palin’s politics – mostly because none of her stances are new; they’re recycled party lines that I have heard a thousand times, and have come to expect from her. So this news story is no different; I’m not surprised:
“I have voted along with the vast majority of Alaskans who had the
opportunity to vote to amend our Constitution defining marriage as between one
man and one woman. I wish on a federal level that’s where we would go. I don’t
support gay marriage,” Palin said. She said she believed traditional marriage is
the foundation for strong families.
Not being surprised, though, doesn’t stop me from being incredibly pissed off.
I will say it again: I do not understand the incredible push to eliminate rights for specific groups of people. I do not wish to take anyone else’s rights away; I cannot comprehend why someone who doesn’t even know me wants to take my rights away.
I take care of my son. I give up a lot for him, as any parent should for their child. He knows that in my home, he is loved, supported, trusted and valued. He knows his voice is heard; his opinions matter. He is happy here, and I think a significant portion of that happiness comes from knowing that Donna also supports and loves him. He doesn’t care that we are gay – and yes, he knows what it means. We are a strong family, and our relationship is a solid foundation. I don’t know why Sarah Palin believes that our relationship is less stable than anyone else’s.
20 Monday Oct 2008
Holy F.
I went camping this weekend, and was going to blog it, but this shit just took top priority:
A Republican women’s group based out of San Bernadino County, CA, circulated a newsletter in October claiming that if Obama is elected this November, his face won’t appear on US currency, the way other Presidents have. Instead, Obama would appear on food stamps – and the organization included in the newsletter a picture of something they’re calling “Obama Bucks”:
Are you freaking kidding me?
The Chaffey Community Republican Women, Federated organization is responsible for this horribly and disgustingly racist piece of propaganda. The newsletter was distributed to about 200 members and associates of the organization, including some African-American members.
Diane Fedele, president of the organization, claims not to understand the connection:
The group’s president, Diane Fedele, said she plans to send an apology letter to her members and to apologize at the club’s meeting next week. She said she simply wanted to deride a comment Obama made over the summer about how as an African-American he “doesn’t look like all those other presidents on the dollar bills.”
“It was strictly an attempt to point out the outrageousness of his statement. I really don’t want to go into it any further,” Fedele said in a telephone interview Tuesday. “I absolutely apologize to anyone who was offended. That clearly wasn’t my attempt.”
Fedele said she got the illustration in a number of chain e-mails and decided to reprint it for her members in the Trumpeter newsletter because she was offended that Obama would draw attention to his own race. She declined to say who sent her the e-mails with the illustration.
She said she doesn’t think in racist terms, pointing out she once supported Republican Alan Keyes, an African-American who previously ran for president.
“I didn’t see it the way that it’s being taken. I never connected,” she said. “It was just food to me. It didn’t mean anything else.”
She said she also wasn’t trying to make a statement linking Obama and food stamps, although her introductory text to the illustration connects the two: “Obama talks about all those presidents that got their names on bills. If elected, what bill would he be on????? Food Stamps, what else!”(from PE.com)
One of the things that really gets me is when people try to show how not bigoted they are. Here, Fedele uses her previous support of Alan Keyes to show how not racist she is – except, you know, not-racist fail because this graphic, coupled with her statement (“What bill would he be on????? Food Stamps, what else!”), make for a seriously convincing display of racism.
I’m also not sure I follow her logic in wanting to point out the “outrageousness” of Obama’s statement that she intended to deride. Obama certainly doesn’t look like the other men featured on our national currency. Let’s take a quick peek, shall we?
And, in case you have somehow managed to forget what Obama looks like despite finding him on nearly every channel on television:
Right, so can someone explain to me why it would be “outrageous” for Obama to make the point that he doesn’t look like these folks? Why it’s inappropriate and even “offensive” for him to point out that he’s black? After all, didn’t Fedele point out that she previously supported a black candidate? Why isn’t it inappropriate for her to point out Alan Keyes’ race?
Despite the ridiculously offensive nature of this newsletter situation, I think it opens up an opportunity for a hugely important dialogue. We are being given ample opportunity to discuss race relations in this country right now – the plethora of anti-Obama ads that are floating to the surface are creating a great space for frank discussion about how race is viewed and talked about (or not talked about) in our current culture. I have said several times in recent memory to my best friend that I believe sexism is far more acceptable and prevalent in our society than racism – and now these racist attacks on Obama are giving me cause to rethink that stance. I’m beginning to understand that I can’t take for granted the ground that was gained in the Civil Rights Movement of the 60s, because there are still people who want to take away the victories achieved.
If you’re as offended as I am, take a moment to explain to Diane Fedele why this graphic is racist, and completely unacceptable:
Chaffey Community Republican Women, Federated
Diane Fedele (President)
P.O. Box 974
Upland, CA 91785
And learn from this, like I am: we have still so far to go.